育儿嫂应该定位于：协助产妇照料孩子，帮助产妇做她不方便做的活，科学指导产妇对孩子进行护理以及自身康复。一个孩子的好与坏(这里包括身体是否健康、心理是否健康、智商、情商是否高)，长大是否成才，都与母亲的胎教和出生后每一天的教育、影响分不开。从孩子出生，母爱就一直是孩子成长最重要的因素，孩子减少了母爱的享受，对日后的发育成长会造成许多障碍。   作为产妇生完孩子后只是万里长征走完了第一步，接下来就要用自己的乳汁哺育孩子。月子期间妈妈们最主要的事情就是好好恢复体力，认真哺育婴儿。当孩子需要吃时，按需哺乳;当孩子睡觉时妈妈也跟着孩子一起睡觉休息。做每件事都要对着孩子讲述道理，给孩子唱歌，目光与孩子对视，进行感情的交流。这样长大的孩子懂道理、有人情味、有爱心。   育儿嫂协助产妇做好自身康复和婴儿护理，绝不是代替产妇。平时做居室卫生日常清洁，帮助做乳房护理、煲汤、营养配餐、沐浴擦身。对婴儿，换尿布，洗澡，洗涮婴儿用品。在整个工作中只是配角，千万不要喧宾夺主，好的月嫂只能主动帮助产妇进入母亲的角色，用自己的经验帮助产妇更快地熟悉侍弄孩子的方法，希望我们每个使用育儿嫂的家庭不要进入这个误区。

Parenting should be positioned to help mothers care for children, help mothers do the work that they are not convenient to do, and scientifically guide mothers to care for their children and self rehabilitation. Whether a child is good or bad (including physical health, mental health, intelligence, intelligence quotient) and whether growing up or not is closely related to the mother's prenatal education and the education and influence of every day after birth. From the birth of a child, maternal love is always the most important factors of child growth, fewer children love to enjoy, will cause many obstacles on the day after growth. As the maternal birth is just the first step in the Long March, the next step is to feed the children with their own milk. The most important thing for mothers during the month of the month is to recover their physical strength and nurture the baby seriously. When the child needs to eat, it is fed on demand; while the child is sleeping, the mother also goes to sleep with the child. To do everything is to tell the truth to the child, to sing to the children, to look at the children and to communicate with the children. The children who grow up have a sense of truth, human feelings and love. Parturients help parturients to do their own rehabilitation and baby care, and it is not a substitute for parturients. Do daily cleaning indoor health, help breast care, nutritional food, soup, bath brush. For babies, change diapers, bathe, and wash baby supplies. In the whole work only a supporting role, do not a good Yuesao can only take the initiative to help women to enter the mother's role, with their own experiences to help women quickly familiar with methods of small children, we hope every use of parental family do not enter this myth.